Fifty seven years ago, the incoming President told the nation, “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country.” John Kennedy’s inaugural words reminded us if we had forgotten, and enlightened us if we did not know, what going through this life successfully is about. Its not just about you, but about your contribution to the world, your country, your community, your family. It’s about what you bring to the table. Fifty six years later we live in a more me-oriented society. We hear less about contribution and more about entitlement. Any group is great to the extent its individuals are willing to contribute their talents and passions to make it better.
You are blessed with a unique and special mix of talents and gifts. For the whole to survive, all of those gifts need to be engaged. For the whole to thrive, we must welcome and encourage the gifts of all. Your contribution to the world is just as important as anyone else’s. What will make America great is respect and support for the unique blend of gifts we each bring to the table.
Identifying Your Contribution to the Whole
You may not be aware of what your contribution to any particular group is meant to be. That is OK. What we bring changes in different seasons of life as we change, and also varies by the group of which we are a part. If you are unsure what your gifts are or the best way to use them, start by offering to help. Try different groups that are of interest to you and jump in. Do whatever is asked. Over time you will find where your contribution really has value because it both supports the organization, and is also fulfilling to you. Your contribution may not be your life’s passion, and doesn’t need to be. Contribution is its own reward. Knowing that you are a part of something bigger than yourself will make you feel good about yourself.
Think about your contribution to every group of which you are a part. Start with family and friends and move on to work and community. What do you contribute? What more can you add? How can your special talents and gifts make the group stronger or better? In case of doubt, ask. Asking shows you care about the organization as a whole, and also that you care that you are a contributor to its well being. Everyone loves a giver, and its a lot more rewarding.
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