Social Sharing

This post on social sharing was suggested by a Dad, who had real concerns about the sharing his daughters did on social media.

Social Sharing isn’t just with your friends

People who aren’t your friends are on the internet.

Friends of friends

People (who may not be someone you want to know all about you) can also see what your friends see on their screens.

Predators can see everything about you too

No information on the web is really private. The web is the new lurking playground for predators. Don’t make it easy for them.

• Do you talk about where you live and work and who your friends are?
• Predators can use that information to stalk and hurt you.
• They can use information on your social sharing account to make you think you know each other.
• Thieves will burglarize your home while you are tweeting and messaging about the great restaurant you are in or talking about the fun vacation you are on.

Your family

Do you really want Aunt Millie to know you did THAT?
How will your Dad feel about the beer pong game that went on for 6 hours?
Isn’t your Mom already too much in your business?
Does your new boyfriend really need to see the last 6 guys you’ve dated?

Bosses and Schools (current and future) WILL check your social media

Get real. Bosses and schools regularly look into your social sharing accounts to get to know you better. Does your social profile paint a picture of someone that your desired school or employer would want?

Safety tips for Social Sharing

• Be sure your settings are set to share all information with friends ONLY.
• Think before you post (regardless of your settings): Is this safe for everyone to see? Would I walk around telling everyone this information?
• Never share about upcoming travel or evenings out.
• Share about vacations and time away from your home AFTER THE EVENT
• In case of doubt: DON’T SHARE ONLINE- share in person. It’s better social sharing anyway.

Social sharing is a great way to stay in touch with friends and family when used wisely. Be safe.